Welcome to the ultimate home birth checklist, a guide to safe and joyful births. As a midwife for over 40 years, I have witnessed countless beautiful home births where families were able to cherish every moment of their baby’s arrival in the comfort of their own homes.

However, with all the excitement that surrounds preparing for a home birth, it can be easy to overlook important details that ensure everyone’s safety and wellbeing. That’s why I’ve created this comprehensive checklist – to help you prepare for your home birth so that you can relax and enjoy this sacred journey.

This guide is designed to empower you with knowledge and practical advice so that you can make informed decisions about your birth experience. Whether you are planning a water birth or a traditional birth on land, this checklist will provide you with everything you need to know to have a safe and joyful home birth.

So let’s get started!

Planning For A Home Birth

Planning for a home birth can be an exciting and empowering experience. It allows you to take control of your birth experience and create a space that feels safe and comfortable for you and your baby.

One of the first things you’ll want to consider is selecting a midwife who shares your values and goals for your birth. Your midwife will be a key partner in helping you prepare for your home birth, so it’s essential to choose someone with whom you feel comfortable and confident.

Another important consideration is the birth pool, which can provide comfort and support during labor. Discussing this with your midwife early on will help ensure that you have access to one that meets safety standards, is set up correctly, and has all necessary equipment available.

With careful planning and preparation, you can create the perfect environment for bringing new life into the world – one that honors both your needs as a mother-to-be and the needs of your baby.

As we move forward, let’s explore how to create a safe space for your home birth journey.

Creating A Safe Space

Creating a Safe Space: Tips and Strategies

To ensure a safe and joyful home birth experience, creating a safe space is crucial. It’s essential to address any concerns or fears that may arise during the process. Fear can create tension in the body, which can slow down labor or cause complications. Therefore, it’s important to create an environment where you feel comfortable, relaxed, and supported.

Here are three tips for creating a safe space:

  1. Clear the space: Before labor begins, make sure your birthing space is clean and clutter-free. This will help you feel more comfortable and focused during the process.
  2. Set the mood: Create a relaxing atmosphere by dimming the lights, playing soft music or nature sounds, and using aromatherapy with essential oils such as lavender or chamomile.
  3. Surround yourself with support: Have trusted individuals present who will provide emotional support throughout the process. This could be your partner, doula, midwife, or close family members.

By implementing these tips and strategies for creating a safe space, you’ll be able to focus on your body’s natural rhythms and movements during labor without any external distractions.

Essential Supplies And Equipment

When it comes to giving birth at home, having the right supplies and equipment can make all the difference.

One of the most popular options for home births is a water birth, which requires a large tub or pool that is specifically designed for labor and delivery.

In addition to the water birth tub, you’ll also want to have plenty of towels, washcloths, and waterproof pads on hand to keep yourself and your surroundings clean and comfortable.

Emergency preparedness is also crucial when it comes to home birth. While midwives are highly skilled in managing potential emergencies, it’s important to have backup plans in place just in case.

This may include having a phone nearby with emergency contacts programmed in, as well as a first aid kit stocked with basic supplies such as gauze pads, bandages, and antiseptic solution.

You may also want to consider having oxygen on hand, which can be useful in case of respiratory distress.

As you prepare for your home birth journey, remember that having the right supplies and equipment can help you feel more confident and empowered throughout the process.

But no matter what happens during labor and delivery, rest assured that you are well-prepared for any situation that may arise.

With these essential items at your fingertips, you can focus on fully experiencing each stage of labor and bringing your baby into the world with love and joy.

Understanding The Stages Of Labor

As you prepare for your home birth, it’s important to understand the different stages of labor. This knowledge will help you feel more confident and empowered as you go through each phase of the birthing process. And remember, every labor is unique, so don’t be discouraged if your experience looks a little different from someone else’s.

The first stage of labor is typically the longest and can last anywhere from a few hours to a few days. During this time, your cervix will dilate and efface (thin out) in preparation for delivery. You may experience contractions that come and go in intensity, as well as other signs such as back pain or a bloody show.

To help manage discomfort during this stage, try practicing breathing techniques like deep belly breathing or patterned breathing. Additionally, consider utilizing pain management options such as hydrotherapy (using water for pain relief), massage, or aromatherapy with essential oils.

  • Breathing techniques can help you stay focused and calm during contractions
  • Hydrotherapy can provide natural pain relief during labor
  • Massage can help release tension in the body and promote relaxation
  • Aromatherapy with essential oils can have calming effects on the mind and body

As you progress into the second stage of labor, your cervix will be fully dilated and it will be time to push your baby out into the world! This phase typically lasts anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours. Throughout this stage, continue using breathing techniques to help maintain focus and conserve energy between contractions. It’s also important to listen to your body and push when you feel an urge to do so.

Transitioning into postpartum care for mom and baby…

Postpartum Care For Mom And Baby

As labor comes to an end, the excitement and anticipation for the arrival of your baby builds up. But as you welcome your little one into the world, it’s important not to forget about yourself and your emotional well-being.

The postpartum period can be a challenging time for new parents, so it’s crucial to have a support system in place that includes breastfeeding support. Breastfeeding is one of the most natural things in the world, but it can also be tricky and overwhelming at times.

Having someone by your side who is knowledgeable and experienced in this area can make all the difference. Seek out lactation consultants or attend breastfeeding support groups to ensure that you and your baby get off to a good start with this important bonding experience.

Remember, taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of your little one!


In conclusion, preparing for a home birth can be an exciting and empowering experience. By following this ultimate home birth checklist, you can create a safe and joyful environment for you and your baby.

Remember to trust your body and listen to your intuition throughout the labor and delivery process.

As Ina May Gaskin once said, ‘Remember this, for it is as true as true gets: Your body is not a lemon. You are not a machine. The Creator is not a careless mechanic.’

Embrace the natural process of childbirth and surround yourself with supportive individuals who believe in your ability to birth your baby at home.

With preparation, education, and a positive mindset, you can have a beautiful home birth experience.